This post is a little out of the ordinary for me and for once, (insert gasp here) won't be about the crazy antics of my work environment. Don't worry, I will still be posting the best gems that my crazy co-workers have to offer.
Today, I'd like to discuss a book that I'm currently reading, Notes Left Behind by Brooke & Keith Desserich. This nonfiction book takes your heart on a journey through sadness, happiness, hope and despair. It is the story of the Desserich's daughter, Elena, and her battle with pediatric brain cancer. Brooke & Keith chronicled their journey from the day that Elena was diagnosed through all of the trials and tribulations in the form of a daily journal entry. Their main goal was to be able to have an outlet and a story for their youngest daughter, Gracie, so that she may one day be able to understand this emotional journey that her family was on.
While any sickness or disease pulls at the heartstrings, it is ever more prevalent when it is concerning a child. While this book is truly a diary of the challenges they faced, it's purpose is much more meaningful; that every single moment you take a breath is a moment to be cherished.
How often do we roll our eyes when we have to go to a family party? How many times do we opt to sit and stalk facebook while our loved ones are running an errand or in another room? How many times have you thought to reach out to a long-lost friend, but felt too uncomfortable or awkward to actually pursue it?
The Desserich's would give anything to have one more moment with their Elena. One more laugh from a tickle-fest, one more pout for having to eat her vegetables, one more cry for her younger sister stealing her toy, one more smile as she fell asleep in the crook of her father's arms. They understood that it's not just the little things or the big things that make up life's great moments; its the everything in between as well.
I urge you all to take a moment and reflect on your life. Are there things that you wish you did or still want to do? Don't waste a moment! Don't have regrets.
Chances are infinite, but one thing that's not... is time.
Thank you Laurzee for the comments. These are precious times indeed. If that's one lesson that can be learned from this unexpected journal and from Elena's life, we are honored. I know she would be as well.
ReplyDeleteKeith Desserich
Thanks for commenting, Keith. Elena was a beautiful little girl who I'm certain saw and learned more in her six years than most do their whole lives. This journal is such a gift for Gracie and for the world. Thank you both for sharing your journey. I'm positive that it will touch anyone who reads it; it certainly touched me.
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